An AI dating coach for women
A coach in your corner, for finding a good one.
She remembers your story, practises with you before the real thing, and brings in a man who tells you honestly how men think. Meet more of the right men, then judge them by how they treat you.
What you get
A friend who knows the research, and a man who tells you the truth.
She remembers your story
Your plans, your wins, the friend who offered to introduce you. Every talk picks up where you left off, and she cheers the attempt, not just the outcome.
“You don't have to find the flaw in yourself.”
A man's honest view
Ask Daniel why he went quiet, what a text really means, how it looks from his side. He'll tell you, and he'll say when it's what men say rather than what they do.
“That's about him, not you.”
Practice before the real thing
The men play the men you'll meet: a first hello, a first date, saying no, spotting a red flag. Then honest feedback, green flags and red ones included.
“He's shy, not disinterested, and that's a good sign.”
See it
Meet Maya.
Recorded from the app itself. Maya and the coaches are AI; Maya's lines are re-voiced.
Real steps, at your pace
Small real actions, counted every week.
Not hours in an app. A few real steps a week out there, one lesson a week from the research, and you climb when you're ready.
- 1Set upThree must-haves that are about how he behaves, a couple of filters widened, one profile that says you want a relationship.
- 2Show upOne place you go every week, short app sessions, and friends asked for introductions.
- 3Make the first moveA smile, a hello, a specific first message, a call within a week.
- 4Date to learnShort public first dates, a few notes after each, and his intentions asked by about the third.
- 5Decide and buildChoose on purpose, and see how he treats you over time.
Safety, built in
Your safety comes before any date.
Video call first, then a short public meeting. Your own way there and home, and a friend who knows where you are.
Money is a red flag. Anyone you haven't met who asks for money, gift cards or crypto: she says plainly that it's the classic scam.
No pressure, ever. She never pushes you to meet sooner, stay longer, or give a second chance to someone who ignored your no.
Real help when it matters. If something you say sounds unsafe, she stops coaching and gives you real help lines.
Built on research
Widen the pool, then judge him slowly.
The coaching follows a 100-source report on how women find lasting partners, with every claim graded for strength.
When women sent the first message on a dating site, it was more than twice as likely to lead to a connection. Women sent about a quarter as many.
Kreager et al., 2014of couples who met in 2017 met online, 20% through friends. How a couple met made no difference to whether they lasted.
Rosenfeld, Thomas & Hausen, 2019couples in the largest study of what makes a relationship satisfying: how he treats you predicted it, not the traits on his checklist.
Joel et al., 2020Help us shape it
We're building Wingwoman with a small group of women. If you'd talk with us for 30 minutes about what dating is like for you, tick the box when you sign up.
Pricing
Simple. No subscription.
$5 for 30 minutes
- Your coach, with her memory of you
- Daniel's honest view, any time
- Practice scenes and your weekly steps
Free for 10 minutes
- No card to try it
- Top up only if it helps
Questions
Fair questions.
Are the coaches real people?
No. Nina, Daniel and the practice partners are AI, and they'll tell you so if you ask. The steps you take are real.
Will it tell me to change who I am?
No. No games, no "make him chase", nothing about pleasing men at your own expense. Your standards stay yours; the coaching is about meeting more men and judging them by how they treat you.
Who is it for?
Women 18 and over, especially 25 to 45, who want a committed relationship, whether you're starting out, back after a divorce, or tired of the apps.
Is this therapy?
No. It's a coach. If something heavier comes up, she'll point you to real help.
What happens to what I tell her?
It's used to coach you, and nothing else. We don't sell it.
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